Some phrased this as oversimplifying but I would rather term
it as joining the dots. In recent weeks, the same theme kept emerging time
after time…from a video of confession coming from a doctor weighing the importance
of material wealth vs. health, a recent conversation over lunch with a
colleague on what makes a happy career decision, in which he then bounced
across a HBR article on “How will you measure your life” to a local study
results in Singapore on “Is Happiness more important than Money”. How
interesting especially, when this has been the deepest reflection I have had for
the longest time as an individual…and I will try my best to discuss them one by
one.
Coming to London, with an aspiration to do well in my career
is definitely well intended. However, I also realized how myopic it can be at
times when your decision making mechanism starts to only operate around that
one dimension. And, in Buddhist teachings, that would probably mean putting a
stronger weighting on the family of I, me, my, mine and myself. Trust me, when
you constantly chase for more of something and yet still feel empty – time to
open the moral compass to check if we are heading to the right direction.
Clearly, it is a straight forward answer for some to say “Happiness
is more important than Money” but I think there is more to that than the
tagline alone. I personally believe true happiness is when one can practice
boundless love, over and beyond oneself – it is the kind of joy that channeled through
your whole body and radiates on your face despite feeling bodily tired after
volunteering your time to help others. For
one to realize there is more to life than just your solo self is a good start.
When you start from a bigger picture, you momentarily learn
to treasure your health (for a good health is a foundation to be able to do greater
things in life). So, for the young ones thinking “We are Young, We are Free”
remember not to overwork or overplay to the expense of your health for you are only
incurring cumulative interest to repay later.
For those of you who are embarking on a career journey, a
profession that only pays you very well is not everything. Looks great on your
bank account and perhaps when you socialize with friends. Richard Branson, himself
said “Money is a by-product of
bigger, more meaningful goals such as passion, fun and wisdom. As I’ve said
before, have fun, do good, and the money will come. “
Always very grateful for moments like this for such quiet moments
are when you strip everything back to basics – to contemplate on simple joy and
happiness, to realize that letting go makes you gain more than you thought you
will lose. Definitely not complete to just end this little reflection without
dedicating thanks to the source of inspiration itself – a beautiful song that
was played in every Firefly Mission volunteering event that thoroughly reminds
me of the basic of happiness is to be able to share the happiness with a
boundless heart.
Sabbe Satta Sukhi Hontu J
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KLLUWDhA7jI
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