Wednesday, August 29, 2012

15th Anniversary Concert

Singapore Buddhist Mission's youth group, SBM Youth, is celebrating it's 15th anniversary in 2012. To commemorate this milestone year, SBM Youth will be organizing a 15 Anniversary Concert, where youth members will be putting up songs (some of which are original compositions) and dance items, skits and also a Buddhist short film made by the youths themselves.

The concert will be held at Tampines East CC Auditorium on 28 September 2012, Friday. Tickets are priced at $20 for adults (21 and above) and $10 for youths (below 21). For more information about ticketing, please feel free to contact Alvin @ 97986072 or Weiliang @ 91823425.


All proceeds will go into the Singapore Buddhist Mission's Youth Development Fund. For more information, email to sbmyouth@gmail.com.

Here are preview of some of the performances that will be put up by the youth members of the group:

The band, Reaching Jhana, and their original composition, "Buddhist Boy":

Jun Sian's solo cello performance:

A group of our youths, led by Bro. Alvin will also be performing Kang Kee's Sheng Ming Zong De Peng You:

Wei Guang and Shannon will be singing "The Guiding Light In My Life", an original composition by Wei Guang:

Our boys will also be putting up some K-pop dance numbers. The girls group as well but sorry, erm, no pictures as of now:

and the short film, "Hugging The Buddha's Foot" starring Justin Lee and Cleonn Chan:

All members of SBM Youth, past and present, are cordially welcomed to join us, either as a volunteer or audience member (your choice!). This is after all, a night to celebrate all the good times we have spent together as a youth group. Just contact any of the captains or senior members and let them know. Look forward to seeing you guys!

As for the performers, break a leg!

Farewell Uncle Thomas


One of our adult supporters, Uncle Thomas, had passed away peacefully last Monday. He has for many years supported the Buddhist Mission by providing quality and affordable printing services to our tri-monthly newsletters, event posters and collaterals. You will be deeply missed. Thank you for your service to the Mission all these years. May you be free from suffering, wherever you may be now.

"The gift of Dhamma excels all other gifts."

Idam me natinam hotu
Sukhita hontu natayo.

Thursday, August 23, 2012

25th August 2012

Guys and girls!! Have you already left your Saturday free for us? Ven Bodhi's sharing on 'Greed and Creating Wealth', brother Ze Ming's sharing '45 years or Buddhism in 7 min'!

Same time, same place! See you there! :)

Monday, August 20, 2012

Celebrating Our Nation's Birthday





























Concept of Wealth in Buddhism


Brother Jeffrey had kindly took down some notes after the young adults session with Ven. Dr. Bodhi. The topic of the session was the concept of wealth in Buddhism.


Concept of Wealth in Buddhism

In this week’s session conducted by Venerable Dr. Bodhi, we touched on the topic of “Wealth Creation” in the context of Buddhism. The learning objective of this session was to answer these 3 questions: “What is wealth?”, “Where does it originate?” and lastly, “How does it originate?”

To start off the session, Venerable Dr. Bodhi did two very interesting case studies with us: Firstly, the story of the Mouse Merchant who listened and understood well the words of a wise King’s financial advisor, observed carefully for opportunities, put in the effort and eventually achieved great wealth. Story can be found: http://www.buddhanet.net/e-learning/buddhism/bt1_04.htm . After that, Venerable Dr. Bodhi related this story to the second case study of a modern young man who actually turned a paper clip into a house of his own: http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/5167388.stm

These two stories reflected similar learning points for us to take away:

1. Both main characters of these stories had shown intelligence, innovation, creativeness and diligence.

2. Other than these valuable personal qualities, the characters had strong support from the people around them. To achieve that, one will have to show goodwill to the people around him first.

3. Very importantly, as of what all businessmen desired, the characters had a lot of luck. And so what exactly is luck and how should we go about obtaining luck?

i) In Chinese saying, luck is about 天时、地利、人和 (the right timing, right venue and right people)

ii) To have good luck, one needs good karma. This boils down to how we deal with different situations/conditions as our actions will eventually generate effects which will snowball and one day, reach back to us.
So, on a very basic level, we have to do good things. However, to fully achieve the merits of these good deeds, the intentions behind should not just be for your own sake. Instead, the deeds should be done with the aim of benefiting everyone else in your community.
To go onto a deeper level, we have to be constantly practicing mindfulness. We have to purify our mind so as to strengthen it. This is to prevent oneself from committing undesirable thoughts or actions before anger or delusion has the opportunity to take over one’s mind. Practicing mindfulness can also allow one to develop a sharp observation skill which makes one more capable of ‘seeing’ the things, people and opportunities around him

iii) A lot of devotees are blinded by superstitions, failing to think rationally. This resulted in them committing a lot of foolish actions in the pursuit of ‘luck’.

Next, Venerable Dr. Bodhi went on to define for us the word “wealth”. Wealth in pali, can mean Bhoga, dhana or vitta. So, it means the money/valuables in large amounts owned by a person/ institution/ country.

“Take the case of the person who makes his wealth without harming others, and in so doing makes himself happy and fulfilled, shares it with others, does good works, makes use of it without greed, without infatuation, aware of its limitations and keeping in mind his spiritual growth; that person is praiseworthy on all these counts.”

In the above abstract, the Buddha notes that a wealthy person will be praiseworthy based on how he makes his wealth; how he utilizes his wealth; and the attitude he has towards it.

The dangers of wealth: It has a tendency to make people feel proud and complacent especially if it has been acquired with little effort. More on this aspect will be covered for the next sharing session.

There are five higher level meanings of wealth which we should be looking at as well:

1. Wealth of Faith

2. Wealth of Virtues

3. Wealth of Learning

4. Wealth of Generosity

5. Wealth of Wisdom

“Whoever is rich in these and other kinds of spiritual treasures, whether they be a man or woman, they are not poor nor are their lives empty” So, other than dwelling on how to create, acquire and enjoy wealth materially, we must also understand that our wealth can have an even greater value if we use the time, freedom and opportunities in a lot of ways to help us focus on our spiritual growth.

Later on, Venerable Dr. Bodhi led us through a discussion on the opportunity cost (time/ energy/ leisure etc) for wealth. As creation or acquisition of wealth depends mainly on the hard work among other things, how do we go about balancing the “Sacrifice Vs Wealth” question? We started to share our experiences and views on this question. Ultimately, we concluded that it goes back to everyone’s individual goals in life and the need to balance and fulfill the three main factors for happiness in a layman: professional life, interpersonal relationships and spiritual well-being.

Through this meaningful session and fruitful discussions conducted by Venerable Dr. Bodhi, we were able to gain a more practical understanding of ‘wealth’ which does not only encompasses material wealth. Other aspects/ types of wealth are as important if one wants to enjoy his material wealth.

Sunday, August 19, 2012

When the Shingles Scare turned into a Momento of Reflection



7 days, 168 hours after, I am finally back to my upbeat self (well, almost!) after a week of shingles scare when I first detected it. Pretty sure a number of you would have had this very experience in your life when you encountered something uncertain or unfamiliar and the first thing you do is to exaggerate the fear even further into the unknown. That’s exactly what I have been through and most importantly, learnt a great deal from.

Picked up my best friend, Google and the more I read, the more I fear what is happening to my body. A visit to the hospital when the doctor said there is nothing he can do but for me to bear with the pain and finish the entire course of anti-viral medication did not help much either. After a few days dealing with downhill mood swings worrying how this will affect my work performance, how it will breakdown my nervous system, this and that – this very incident flipped me upside down.

It was when out of pure coincidence I decided to text my dharma sister in London Fo Guang Shan to ask her how to cook vegetarian cuisine given I need to be on a strict diet, in which then she decided to bring me to another dharma sister for Chinese treatment. The pain was excruciating but her words remain very vividly in my mind – “Bear with the pain as though you are bearing with your past karma, and continue to cultivate yourself with goodness in everything you do”.

Then, came a gentleman in crutches limping his way through for treatment. Again, this dharma sister amazed me with her kind compassion. Instead of asking for a fee from the treatment, she offered to donate some money for the gentleman to go for physiotherapy as he is currently unemployed and her rationale was as simple as – “Learn to accept other’s kindness when you need it, when you regain your health, help others in your own capacity and that would be the best repayment”.

It amazed me how sometimes; we take certain conditions for granted like how we strive for what we need to strive to achieve the worldly success and help others after. Yet, what I was fortunate enough to meet all the way here in the UK, are dharma sisters who dedicate their actions along the Bodhisattva’s path to help others first and believe with strong faith to spread goodness and compassion.

What I have learnt is this - while an ordinary intellect person will not be able to comprehend the mechanics of the law of moral causation (karma), as Buddhists we believe we reap what we sow just like what the Samyutta Nikaya gathered:

"According to the seed that’s sown,
So is the fruit you reap there from,
Doer of good will gather good,
Doer of evil, evil reaps,
Down is the seed and thou shalt taste
The fruit thereof."

On that very simple note, for us who are enjoying the fruits of youthfulness at the moment, do not take your youth for granted. Do not assume there will always be time to practice or to do good tomorrow. The moment is now. And, for those of you who always ask “I do good all the time, why is this bad happening to me?” – Practicing good thoughts and actions are like planting a seed; it takes the right conditions to bear fruits. Be patient and if you are mindful enough, you will notice the leaves and flowers appearing momentarily.

Friday, August 10, 2012

A Buddhist in a working environment

Last Saturday, Venerable Bodhi shared with us the two components of being successful professionally, as a Buddhist. How can we work towards the top yet still maintain a good working relationship with the people around us?

Xinyi has done up a summary based on Venerable Bodhi's Sharing below, Enjoy!

Venerable Bodhi shared the professional and interpersonal segments of being successful so I would like to share one major take-away I had from the sharing :)

How can we influence people, not to 'stand on our side', but to share similar goals and aspirations in our working environment?

Work ethics, charisma, communication skills

Venerable Bodhi shared with us an article that I found to be really interesting and helpful, not just to people in the working world, but even to people like myself who have yet to stepped into the working world, or students!

Venerable Bodhi said that when she first read the article, it sounded like the characteristics a Bodhissatva would possess :) I thought what Venerable Bodhi shared with us was really helpful, and I would like to share with everyone :)

How to be charismatic?

1. Connecting with people around us: being genuine and sincere when communicating with them, not as superiors but seeing them at the same level as ourselves

2. Having presence: not undermining others, or allow people to undermine ourselves, and being driven by passion or purpose not by fame or money

3. Awareness: to be aware of the strengths/barriers that affect the relationship with people, being aware of and sensitive to people's thoughts and intentions

4. Relationship-focused: to be slow to criticise, quick to compliment, seeing the best in people and being genuinely interested in people's well-being

5. Influence: to possess empathy and use stories or analogies to get our points across to people

6. Standing out: not afraid of being different, doing the unexpected, at the same time driven by dedication and determination in whatever we do

7. Modelling
: constantly seeking from mentors or similar successful people, having the intense hunger to learn and improve with this thought in mind, "What can I learn from this person?"

8. Altruism
: preferring to give rather than take, having this innate generosity and firmly believing that we can get what we want in life, so to first help others get what they want in life

I will work on 'connecting with people', being genuine in my conversations for now :)

And how about you? :)

OH MY BUDDHA!

OH MY BUDDHA!
8 Pointers to Young Buddhist Living by Brother Shi Xiong

(1) Take Refuge in the Buddha, Dhamma & Sangha

As young Buddhists, we can start the day by taking refuge in the Triple Gems, bringing to mind the qualities of the Buddha and a reminder to strive and lead our life in accordance to the tenets of wisdom and compassion.

“When you are in the forest or in empty places
If fear and panic should arise in you,
Immediately call me to mind.
For if you do so, the fear or panic will be overcome.” 

- The Buddha

(2) Develop Moral Courage

The Buddha advocated for what is right, not what is popular.

He went against the traditional norm of Indian society then by going against the caste system and accepted women into the religious order.

As young Buddhists, we may be challenged to make a choice between doing what is right and what is popular. We can join in the “fun” crowd in teasing a fellow friend, or we can take a stand against such bullying. We can ignore a commuter who needs the seat more than we do, afraid that if he/she rejected our offer for the seat, we won’t look so cool. Or we can stand up and confidently offer our seat tand not be afraid of any possible rejection or stares.

(3) Train the Mind


“The Mind is the forerunner of all things.”

Always pause, clam down, reflect, think, then act.

Meditation trains the mind. It makes us more confient of ourselves and build a healthier self-esteem in every one of us. Start adopting a regular meditation practice by doing a 5-minute session every morning before breakfast or just before you go to bed.

(4) Work Hard in your Studies & Career

As young lay Buddhists, it is important that we work hard in our studies and career and seek excellence in whatever we do. With our knowledge, skills and wealth, we will be able to contribute to society and I a better position to help the less-fortunate.

From the Mangala Sutta the Buddha said,

“To have vast learning, perfect handicraft” (Education)

“Peace occupations…” (Right Livelihood)


these are the Highest Blessings.

and also from the Mahayana texts,

"He who acquites his wealth in harmless ways like a bee that gathers honey, riches mount up for him like an hill’s rapid growth." - The Buddha

(5) Respect Your Parents

“Love your Parents. We are so busy growing up, we often forget they are also growing old.” – Internet Quote.

How true. Maybe we can all start by trying this. It’s lunchtime, and you’re in school/work. Give mom or dad a random call. Tell them “I love you”. Better still, surprise daddy at his workplace with some cupcakes. Sure to make him blush in front of his colleagues but deep inside, he will be beaming with joy. Send a bouquet of flowers to mom as well.

See how your parents respond when you wish them good morning and good night Something you used to do as a kid but now, rarely so.

It’s Sunday morning, why not surprise them with your own home-cooked breakfast. It will be a rarity and a good break for mommy not to have to prepare breakfast.

But more than just surprises, it is our daily interactions that our parents want from us. Talk to them more, interact and show more concern and interest in their lives. Share with them yours too as well as they will be more interested to know how you’re doing in your school, your new bf/gf, new job, etc.

Duties of a Child, according to the Sigalovada Sutta, the Buddha said:

1. Being supported, I shall support them

2. I shall do their duties

3. I shall keep the family lineage

4. I shall act in such a way as to be worthy of my inheritance

5. Furthermore, I shall offer alms in honour of my departed relatives


From the Itivuttaka,
“Mother & Father, compassionate to their family, are called Brahma, first teachers, those worthy of gifts from their children.
So the wise should pay them homage, honor with food and drink, clothing & bedding, anointing & bathing & washing their feet.
Performing these services to their parents,
The Wirse are praised right here and after death rejoice in heaven. (106
)

(6) Love Faithfully

"If man and wife, who are leading a harmonious life, wish to be

together in the next existences, they should have the same faith,

the same morality, the same liberality and the same level of

knowledge. Then they will be in one another's sight so long as this

life lasts and in the future life as well."


"When both are faithful and bountiful, self-restrained, of a

righteous living. They come together as husband and wife, full of

love for each other."


Duties of a Husband (Sigalovada Sutta)

1.By courtesy

2.By not despising her

3.By faithfulness

4.By handing over authority to her

5.By providing her with ornaments

Duties of a Wife (Sigalovada Sutta)

1.Performs her duties in perfect order

2.Hospitable

3.Not unfaithful

4.Protects what he brings

5.Industrious and not lazy in discharging her duties

(7) Develop Strong Spiritual Friendship

4 Kinds of Real Friends

1.A friend who helps

2.A friend who shares the same weal and woe

3.A friend who gives good counsel

4.A friend who sympathises

(8) Practice Daily

Go back to point 1 to point 7. Try do it daily!

Wednesday, August 1, 2012